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Posted Monday, 8 September 2008 2:49 PM


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I hated being constantly self concious. It hindered everything i did as it was such a confidence crusher. I just dont think about it now and there is room in my head for other thoughts! who would have guessed? I also hate the fact that people treat you differently when you are over weight. Even people you know sometimes. i hate that now to though. I am still me, no matter if there is more or less of me. I hated not wanting to go anywhere or leave the house because i had nothing i could wear that made me feel good about myself. Jammies on the couch where no one could see me was the only place i felt comfortable. I never wanted people to see me. Sad really isn't it? that we let ourselves get to a pont where fat rules ou lives? I figure its us versus the fat and its a battle we will have to fight for the rest of our lives. I fight it everyday. Its a battle worth winning im telling you! we need to re take our lives back and get rid of the extra person we are lugging about with us everywhere we go!

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starting weight 103.6kgs
WEEK 1 Loss 2.4 total loss 2.4
WEEK 2 Loss 2.4 total loss 4.8
WEEK 3 Loss 1.2 total loss 6
WEEK 4 Loss 1.8 total loss 7.8
WEEK 5 Loss 400G total loss 8.2
WEEK 6 Loss 1.7 total loss 9.9
WEEK 7 Loss 1.4 total loss 11.3
WEEK 8 Loss 1.4 total loss 12.7
WEEK 9 Loss 1.1 total loss 13.8
WEEK 10 Loss 1.3 total loss 15.1
WEEK 11 Loss 1.1 total loss 16.2
WEEK 12 Loss 600G total loss 16.8
WEEK 13 Loss 1.6 total loss 18.4
WEEK 14 Loss 500G total loss 18.9
WEEK 15 Loss 1.3 total loss 20.2
WEEK 16 Loss 2 total loss 22.2
WEEK 17 Loss 100G total loss 22.3
WEEK 18 Loss 1.5 total loss 23.8
WEEK 19 Loss 100g total loss 23.9
WEEK 20 Loss 1.3 total loss 25.2
WEEK 21 Loss 200g total loss 25.4
WEEK 22 Loss 1.8 total loss 27.2
WEEK 23 Loss 100g total loss 27.3
WEEK 24 Loss 900g total loss 28.2
WEEK 25 Loss 700g total loss 28.9
WEEK 26 PLUS 200g total loss 28.7 -My first gain. I swear i didnt do anything differently either!!
WEEK 27 Loss 1.7kg Total loss 30.5
WEEK 28 Loss 100g Total loss 30.6
WEEK 29 Loss 800g total loss 31.4
WEEk 30 Loss 700g total loss 32.1
WEEK 31 Loss 300g total loss 32.4
WEEK 32 DNW
Week 33 Loss - --- total loss 32.4
Week 34 Loss 100g Total loss 32.5kgs current weight 71.2kg Ive been sick on and off for 2/3 weeks, and doing 1 shake only.
Week 35 Loss 1kg total loss 33.5. Current weight 70.2kgs
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Posted Tuesday, 9 September 2008 10:40 PM


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I think this is an extremely valid conversation to be having because there are many reasons why we hate being fat... so why does it take us so long to do something about it?? Especially those of us who have ben overweight for a substantial part of our lives. SO I would like to add my 2 cents worth of things that I hate about being fat.

* Not visiting any new restaurants or places around town wihtout knowing beforehand whether the chairs there have sides. I am extremely obese and find that I cannot just pop down to the coffee shop with a friend because my bum is too big for the chairs and in some instances it can be painful to try and squish into the chairs.

* On that subject, my husband's family is in Brisbane (whereas we are in Perth) and it is sooooo uncomfortable to be sitting in that plane for so long, and I am lucky I guess that hubby is quite thin and my bum couldshare a part of his seat

* Being embarrassed to eat in public. I am a teacher and I find it so uncomfortable to eat in front of others. I feel sooooo ashamed of my relationship with food that i practically go my da wihtout eating, then I am hungry as swhen i get home and eat WAY too much of all the wrong foods, which so doesnt' help.

* Being a size 26 it is extremely limiting to find any clothes at all, let alone clothes that fit.

* Lack of confidence and being ashamed of my size means I spent years declining invitations to visit with friends or go out places, which has left me missing out on so many good times and even to the point that my friends don't often ivite me out because my answer is mostly 'no' even thought I desperately DO want to go.

* the biggest issue for me is the pain and internal struggle knowing that I am the reason why my husband and I aren't conceiving. I desperately want a baby and because of my weight I am not able to fall pregnant.

It is a hard road and I empathise with ever single person who is battling a weight problem. Especially those of us who also are trying to battle Binge Eating Disorder as well. Talk about your double whammy!

All we can do is keep at it... and think positive!

    

                             

First Mini Goal - Lose 15kgs by Nov 26th  (3rd fertility Appointment)

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Posted Tuesday, 9 September 2008 10:41 PM


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I think this is an extremely valid conversation to be having because there are many reasons why we hate being fat... so why does it take us so long to do something about it?? Especially those of us who have ben overweight for a substantial part of our lives. SO I would like to add my 2 cents worth of things that I hate about being fat.

* Not visiting any new restaurants or places around town wihtout knowing beforehand whether the chairs there have sides. I am extremely obese and find that I cannot just pop down to the coffee shop with a friend because my bum is too big for the chairs and in some instances it can be painful to try and squish into the chairs.

* On that subject, my husband's family is in Brisbane (whereas we are in Perth) and it is sooooo uncomfortable to be sitting in that plane for so long, and I am lucky I guess that hubby is quite thin and my bum couldshare a part of his seat

* Being embarrassed to eat in public. I am a teacher and I find it so uncomfortable to eat in front of others. I feel sooooo ashamed of my relationship with food that i practically go my da wihtout eating, then I am hungry as swhen i get home and eat WAY too much of all the wrong foods, which so doesnt' help.

* Being a size 26 it is extremely limiting to find any clothes at all, let alone clothes that fit.

* Lack of confidence and being ashamed of my size means I spent years declining invitations to visit with friends or go out places, which has left me missing out on so many good times and even to the point that my friends don't often ivite me out because my answer is mostly 'no' even thought I desperately DO want to go.

* the biggest issue for me is the pain and internal struggle knowing that I am the reason why my husband and I aren't conceiving. I desperately want a baby and because of my weight I am not able to fall pregnant.

It is a hard road and I empathise with ever single person who is battling a weight problem. Especially those of us who also are trying to battle Binge Eating Disorder as well. Talk about your double whammy!

All we can do is keep at it... and think positive!

    

                             

First Mini Goal - Lose 15kgs by Nov 26th  (3rd fertility Appointment)

"The mediocre teacher tells. The good teacher explains. The superior teacher demonstrates. The great teacher inspires." - William Ward

  


                          

                   I pledge 25kgs in the Nye Challenge!

 

 

 

 

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Posted Tuesday, 9 September 2008 11:01 PM


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Things I hate about being fat............

I hate it when I'm going somewhere special, and I get all dressed up and feel really beautiful........then I get the photos developed the next day  

I hate it when my partner wants to see me in pretty lingerie, but it looks much nicer on the coathanger than it ever does on me.........

I hate it when people say "oh you have SUCH a pretty face" which we all know is a translation of "shame about the rest of you"

I hate it when I go shopping with my best friend and spend all day watching her go into stores that don't stock my size

I hate the bra line marks, knicker line marks, clothes marks that end up on my body at the end of the day - I look like a road map of despair!!!

I hate the way my belly sticks out more than my boobs and I still look seven months pregnant

I hate so many things about being fat, and its good to have a laugh about it but WOW I can't wait to transform myself. 

As Eddie says in Absolutely Fabulous :  "Inside of me is a thin woman crying to be let out"

Eddie's mother: "Just the one dear??"



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Posted Tuesday, 9 September 2008 11:45 PM


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I totally agree with every single thing she said!!!!

    

                             

First Mini Goal - Lose 15kgs by Nov 26th  (3rd fertility Appointment)

"The mediocre teacher tells. The good teacher explains. The superior teacher demonstrates. The great teacher inspires." - William Ward

  


                          

                   I pledge 25kgs in the Nye Challenge!

 

 

 

 

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Posted Tuesday, 9 September 2008 11:51 PM


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you gals left out man boobs! haha i know i hate mine! i used to avoid running because of them! funnily enough i am running now for the first time in years!!! and dont care anymore, must be because soon i know they will be gone for good!!!

hmm i hate getting tired from just walking up steps!
and i hate that at the end of the day my waist is sore from my belt digging in!
i hate being big really! lol


Started 21/7/08 @ 119.6kgs
28/7/08- 116.1
4/08/08- 115
11/08/08- 112.5
18/08/08-110.1
25/08/08 109.1
1/09/08 107.1
8/09/08- 105.7
15/09/08- 104.2
23/09/08- 101.9
30/09/08- 99.8kgs
07/10/08- 99.3kgs
14/10/08- 96.9kgs
21/10/08 96.6kgs (naughty week )
04/11/08 95.1kgs
09/12/08- 90.5kgs




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Posted Wednesday, 10 September 2008 12:34 AM


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Wow!! Everyone is contributing wonderful examples of why we are done being fat!! No longer shall we lead 'half lived lives' because we are embarrased or incapable because of our size. We can do this people....we can change our lives and find out how sweet life really can be when we are not constantly worried about our squishy bodies

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Start weight- 79.3

Week 1 28/3/09- 76.3

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Posted Wednesday, 10 September 2008 1:12 AM


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Up late cannot sleep I find myself  again wondering around the TF forum. Thanks guys after the laughter spurt I just had. I don’t think I could sleep for the rest of the night. I cracked myself up. VERY well written. I agree to everything said, but however I’m looking forward to one extreme positive for losing my weight, and that’s being able to cross my legs and sit like a lady. I can’t wait! 



 


WEEK- 00 - 29/08/2008 Starting weight 113.1Kg

WEEK- 01 - 05/09/2008 Loss 2.2Kg - 110.9

WEEK- 02 - 12/09/2008 Loss 1.2Kg - 109.7

WEEK - 03 - 19/09/2008 Loss 800grms - 108.9

WEEK - 04 - 26/09/2008 Loss 1kg - 107.9

WEEK - 05-  03/10/2008 Did not weigh in

WEEK -06- 10/10/2008 Did not weigh in BUT BACK ON TRACK!

WEEK -07- 17/10/2008 Did not weigh in

WEEK -08- 21/10/2008 Weighed in Tuesday loss 1.6

 

 






 

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Posted Wednesday, 10 September 2008 4:45 PM


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Hideing away.

I hate being overweight and not being able to talk to people and being 16 means I come off very anti social when inside im not.

Not ever haveing a boyfriend because I can't ever get the guts to ask someone out because of fear they will say no because of my weight.

Im sick of being the fat one in the group when all my friends are 8's and 10's its hard when they are grabbing the smalls and I grab the large.

The staff at stores looking at me like I don't belong. Just because I have to get the largest size.


Well, no more
Im going down in size and I can tell, that's all that matters.

I will get the confidence I will.
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I gained back 10 or so.
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I love being able to come on here and speak to other people who know exactly how I feel.  Every time you post, its like you took the words out of my mouth guys!!!

We all know how hard it is being overweight, and its soooo good to know that we can all support eachother to lose weight. 



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