I had my son on an elimination diet for his aspergiers, to see what foods had what reaction - you could always use that as an excuse if needbe. The diet was called the feingolds diet no preservatives or additives or meat pies allowed on that diet

If not, why not ask him to start bringing something different?  Suggest he bring a chicken salad or something and make that your main meal for the day?

Nikki x



Round 2: Start Date 16th June 2009


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Started 19th January, 2009..... 140 kgs

26/1/09..   lost 4.6 kgs........... 135.4kgs 

 2/2/09..    lost 1.1 kgs..........  134.3kgs 

 5/3/09..    lost 4.8 kgs........... 129.5kgs

 2/4/09..   lost 2.5 kgs..........   127.0 kgs

 5/5/09..    lost 3.5kgs..........   123.5kgs

 3/6/09..   lost 3.0 kgs..........   120.5kgs

 6/7/09..   lost 2.5kgs...........   118.0kgs

 3/8/09..   lost 2.8kgs...........   115.2kgs

 7/9/09..   lost 3.7kgs...........   111.5kgs                   

 5/10/09.. lost 2.2kgs...........   109.3kgs 

 3/11/09.. lost 2.1kgs...........   107.2kgs 

01/12/09.. lost 2.7kgs...........   104.5kgs

1/1/10.. lost 2.2kgs...........      102.3kgs

22/2/10..  lost 1.8kgs...........    100.1kgs

TOTAL LOST ... 39.9KGS YAY!!

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** 2nd goal is to be 120kgs by the mid JUNE 2009

*** 3rd goal is 115kgs by mid - August 2009

**** 4th goal is 110kgs by 28/9/ 2009

***** 5th goal is 105kgs by 23/11/2009

****** 6th goal is 100kgs by March 2010 :w00t

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As long as you make a point of the fact that you respect him and that it's not because you want to be rude he should understand. I would also suggest that you bring a chicken salad or something with you to share with him, and while you eat explain the things that you're able to eat. That way should he choose to continue offering food he'll know what you can and can't eat

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Pledged 3kg in the 2010 Going to Try Again Challenge, lost 6.1kg

I thought about saying "oh that looks delicous but I have already eaten. Can I save it for later' Then that way you could give it to someone else without hurting thier feelings. That's an option if you feel you cannot be open and honest with them.

It's so hard isn't it?!?! Most people are well meaning and kind hearted and want to share. And then there are the ones out to sabotage us. But hey that's a whole other thread lol

I know this isn't very pc of me, but.... what about YOUR CULTURE of not wanting to get fat?

You can't let a minority belief (that isn't yours) dictate your lifestyle.

I'm sure if they are lovely as you say they will understand that Friday can not be Pie Day :O)

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GOAL 95kg (size 16/18)
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