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Posted Friday, 8 January 2010 4:03 PM


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Ok so some of you might remember my little break up about a week and a bit ago....my bf broke up with me cos i was too fat. So i moved out and am back at home with mum and dad!

anyway i had a few days of depression eating (although not too bad as the reason i was depressed was cos of my weight so kinda takes the fun out of eating!)

anyway i have been on tf for nearly a week now BUT my mum and dad are going away tomorrow to bali for 10days. I have been very tempted this past week to eat some bad food, but the thought of my mum catching me has stopped me. What is going to happen now that she is not home for 10 days!

im so scared that im just going to binge im craving pasta and chinese. they are my two downfalls.

maybe if i just had them in the first couple of days, i can then work my butt off for the next 8 or so?

i know ppl are going to say you shouldnt be doing this for your mum you should be doing this for yourself, but im still a bit of a mess after my breakup so at the moment I need my mum there to pull me back into line! at least until i get strong enough

can someone let me know what they think?

xx

         

Start Date: 22/01/10 - 88.5kg

29/01/10 - 86.5kg 2kg lost

5/02/10 - 84.4kg 2.1kg lost

12/02/10 - 83.6kg 800g lost

19/02/10 - 83.3kg 300g lost

27/02/10 - 81.4 1.9kg lost

06/03/10 - 80 1.4kg lost

13/03/10 - 79.7 300g lost

20/03/10 79.5 200g lost

27/03/10 - 78.2 1.3kg lost

Goals

10kg loss - neck and shoulder massage!!

15kg loss - facial

Under 70kg - new tattoo

65kg - new hair cut and colour

60kg GOAL - new wardrobe!!!!

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Posted Friday, 8 January 2010 4:27 PM


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If your the only one in the house hun, its a perfect opportunity to get rid of all the junk food and only have healthy stuff in the house!!  I would find it much easier if I didn't have to have everyone else's junk in the cupboards!!!  Also you could start doing a bit of exercise to release all those endorphins which will have you feeling much more positive!  Buy yourself a really good book or rent loads of films you've been wanting to see!  Spoil yourself with facemasks and give yourself a pedicure and paint your nails (really hard to eat once you've painted your nails! )

Use this 'alone' time constructively to decide what you want out of life, where you want to be and how your gonna get there!!  Enjoy yourself - you deserve it! x

Jo x




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WeekDateWeightLoss/GainBMITotal LossWeekDateWeightLoss/GainBMITotal Loss
1 11/08/09 99  35.2 31     
2 15/08/09 96.1 -2.9 34.2 2.932     
3 24/08/09 94.3 -1.8 33.6 4.733     
4 31/08/09 92.6 -1.7 33 6.434     
5 7/09/09 91.4 -1.2 32.5 7.635     
6 14/09/09 90.6 -0.8 32.2 8.436     
7 21/09/09 90.4 -0.2 32.2 8.637     
8 28/09/09 89.9 -0.5 32.0 9.138     
9 05/10/09 88.4 -1.5 31.5 10.639     
10 12/10/09 87.1 -1.3 31 11.940     
11 19/10/09 86.5 -0.6 30.8 12.541     
12 26/10/09 85.4 -1.1 30.4 13.642     
13 02/11/09 83.9 -1.5 29.9 15.143     
14 09/11/09 82.9 -1.0 29.5 16.144     
15 16/11/09 82.7 -0.2 29.4 16.345     
16 23/11/09 81.5 -1.2 29 17.546     
17 30/11/09 81 -0.5 28.8 1847     
18 07/12/09 80.5 -0.5 28.6 18.548     
19 15/12/09 80.4 -0.1 28.6 18.649     
20 21/12/09 78.9 -1.5 28.1 20.150     
21 28/12/09 Had two weeks holiday from TF51     
22 04/01/10 80.3 +1.4 Yikes! 28.6 18.752     
23 11/01/10 Too scared to go!53     
24 18/01/10 80.6 +0.3Oh No! 28.7 18.454     
25 01/02/10 82.5 +1.9  Help! 29.4 16.555     
26 08/02/10 81.1 -1.4 28.9 17.956     
27 15/02/10 81.8 +0.7 29.1 17.257     
28 22/02/10 79.3 -2.5   28.2 19.758     
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Post #531268
Posted Friday, 8 January 2010 8:02 PM


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Sorry about your breakup.  It will get easier at time passes.  Can I ask how much weight you have to lose?? 

Yes you need your mum for support we all need our mums or soemone like them anyway but you can do this for yourself.  You need to become your greatest support.  You deserve to be happy and healthy and if it is your weight holding you back then you deserve to get rid of it. 

I say take this week to look after yourself.  Spend some time on your own doing things you love to do.  Give yourself a manicure and pedicure, hire movies you want to watch, read a great book or some magazines.  Take yourself to the movies.  Take a walk around your neighborhood everyday and get some fresh air.

Start a journal and write down your thoughts and feelings.  Make it a positive thing and write down what makes you happy, the things you like, where you would like to go in your life journey. 

Forget the chinese - it won;t make you feel any better - it never does.  It will only make you feel worse.  Instead get into the TF program and make a really good go of it this week so you can surprise your parents when they return. Trust me you will feel so much better if you stick to things.

Come on here and get the support you need too

Take Care of yourself and don't be so hard on yourself over this breakup.  You are you and you are worthy of finding someone who loves you for who you are.  The more confident you are and the more you like yourself the more likely that you will attract the right sort of guy for you.

ON TF MAINTENANCE SINCE 11/08/09 AND KEEPING IT OFF!

v  In 42 weeks (14/10/08 – 24/8/09)  TOTAL WEIGHT LOST 40.5 KILOS! 

v  I started at 110.4 kilos and dropped to 70 kgs. 

v  My waist measurement dropped from 98 cm to 74cm.  24CM LOST!

v  I started out as a size 18/20 top & 22/24 bottom.  I am now a size 10-12.

v  My BMI was 39.2 which was obese. I am now in a healthy weight range.

v  THANKS TF I COULDN’T HAVE DONE IT WITHOUT YOU!!

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Posted Friday, 8 January 2010 8:37 PM


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rosebud01 (8/01/2010)
Sorry about your breakup.  It will get easier at time passes.  Can I ask how much weight you have to lose?? 

Yes you need your mum for support we all need our mums or soemone like them anyway but you can do this for yourself.  You need to become your greatest support.  You deserve to be happy and healthy and if it is your weight holding you back then you deserve to get rid of it. 

I say take this week to look after yourself.  Spend some time on your own doing things you love to do.  Give yourself a manicure and pedicure, hire movies you want to watch, read a great book or some magazines.  Take yourself to the movies.  Take a walk around your neighborhood everyday and get some fresh air.

Start a journal and write down your thoughts and feelings.  Make it a positive thing and write down what makes you happy, the things you like, where you would like to go in your life journey. 

Forget the chinese - it won;t make you feel any better - it never does.  It will only make you feel worse.  Instead get into the TF program and make a really good go of it this week so you can surprise your parents when they return. Trust me you will feel so much better if you stick to things.

Come on here and get the support you need too

Take Care of yourself and don't be so hard on yourself over this breakup.  You are you and you are worthy of finding someone who loves you for who you are.  The more confident you are and the more you like yourself the more likely that you will attract the right sort of guy for you.

oh rosebud ur right...and the thing is...in the past whenever i have eaten chinese i have always felt terrible afterwards, not just from the guilt but because of all the oil and fat in it, i get a headache and tummy ache for hrs afterwards....im just thinking of that first bite but u are right it will only make me feel worse thank u

ummm how much weight...well atm my self confidence and self love is about a billion below zero so id love to lose 15-20kgs just to get me loving myself again but my ultimate goal is to lose 30 kgs...alot i know :-s feels like its going to take me forever to do...

         

Start Date: 22/01/10 - 88.5kg

29/01/10 - 86.5kg 2kg lost

5/02/10 - 84.4kg 2.1kg lost

12/02/10 - 83.6kg 800g lost

19/02/10 - 83.3kg 300g lost

27/02/10 - 81.4 1.9kg lost

06/03/10 - 80 1.4kg lost

13/03/10 - 79.7 300g lost

20/03/10 79.5 200g lost

27/03/10 - 78.2 1.3kg lost

Goals

10kg loss - neck and shoulder massage!!

15kg loss - facial

Under 70kg - new tattoo

65kg - new hair cut and colour

60kg GOAL - new wardrobe!!!!

Post #531308
Posted Friday, 8 January 2010 8:41 PM


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Hi there 'will do it'

If you enjoy the fact of having your mum looking as a reason to stay on track, could you perhaps put a photo of her on the fridge and the pantry?  Then it will look as if she is watching you.  Just a thought anyway.

I hope that you will quickly come to a place where you are eager to do this for yourself and under your own steam but I sure understand that you've taken a battering at the moment and feel in need of support.  Please do come on here often and talk to us about anything you're feeling.  That's why we're all here - to share and support!!!

Love  May  

Don't dig your grave with your teeth!

 

The best thing about being slimmer is that when my hubby cuddles me I feel as if I'm even closer to him than I used to be, and that's beyond wonderful.  It's been worth every mouthful of food I've not eaten, and will be worth every mouthful I've yet to refuse

   

 

 Weigh under 70 kgs
 68 kgs - GOAL, normal BMI (just!) and 30 kgs gone 

 To be 3 kgs under goal

 

              

          BUNNY CHALLENGE            MONTH OF MAY CHALLENGE       WINTER BULGE CHALLENGE

     ACHIEVED 8.4 Kgs                      ACHIEVED 1.3 Kgs                      1st June, 72.4 kgs to

 of 10 pledged                                                                        13th July ??? Kgs

 

 

 SPRING CHALLENGE

14th July to 1st September

Pledge to be under 70 Kgs

 

               OVERALL GOAL



 

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Posted Friday, 8 January 2010 9:22 PM


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c'mon girl! That crappy food is NOT going to help you lose any weight- dooooooonnnnnnnnnn'tttttttttt dddddddddddoooooooooo ittttttttttt (did you here me yelling?) You WILL regret it...

Rachael

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Week

Date

Weight

Loss/Gain

Total Loss

Goal for following week

1

13/10/09

84.4

START

0.0

Lose 2kg

2

20/10/09

82.3

-2.1

2.1

0.7kg- drink 1.5lt water each day

3

26/10/09

81.0

-1.3

3.4

Can I hope for 1.1 to get me into the 70s? Or 0.8kg. More water. Less random things going into my mouth. Exercise this week!

4

2/11/09

 80.2

 -0.8

 4.2

 more exercise!

5

9/11/09

 79.7

-0.5 

4.7- not the 5 I was hoping for!

 back to basics. As always, more exercise!

6

16/11/09

 79.6

 -0.1

 4.8

 grrr- can't even set goals at the moment!

7

23/11/09

 78.7

 -0.9

 5.7

 yay! a better week

8

3/12/09 (10 day week)

 77.5

 -1.2

 6.9

 

9

16/12/09

 77.4

 -0.1

 7.0

 

10

20/12/09

 76.4

 -1.0

 8.0

 woohoo! Must be the exercise?

11

31/12/09

 77.2

 +0.8

 7.2

 

12

15/01/10

 75.6

 -1.6

 8.8

 11cms off waist

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Posted Friday, 8 January 2010 11:35 PM
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I love Skinny May's idea of the photo of mum on the fridge and pantry.

Also, are you into positive affirmations? Might be time to get a few and start getting ur brain focussed on what you want rather than what you want to avoid

You CAN do it. You know you can!



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Goal 1: 22/02/2010: Reach 89kg.. the 80s! That's aiming to lose 8kg.

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Posted Sunday, 10 January 2010 6:06 PM


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I agree with the others, succumbing to your cravings isn't going to make you feel better. I reckon, while you've got the house to yourself, give yourself a lot of love and pampering! Long baths, lots of relaxing and lots of DVDs! Treat yourself with things that aren't food.

Make yourself some TF friendly Chinese inspired dishes! As for the pasta, how about making a TF friendly pasta sauce and having it with some mushrooms and veg? You can adapt, have something that seems like comfort food and stay on track.

You aren't alone, we are only a mouseclick away!


Nikki x



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Posted Monday, 11 January 2010 10:02 AM


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http://www.tonyferguson.com/articles/weight-loss-tips/getting-back-on-track.aspx

Getting Back on Track!

Article revised by Jessica Sardelic and Rochelle Trail.

The honeymoon period is over...or should I say the festive season is over.  The parties have come and gone, and with them the excess food and beverages that you normally would not consume or at least not in the quantities consumed during the festive time of the year.  So now it's time to get back on track with your weight loss goal.  The longer you prolong... the harder it will become.

It can be difficult getting back on track once you have stopped especially if you feel like you have gained some weight. You may find that the words 'what's the point' or 'it's too late' come to mind. But remember losing weight is a journey not a quick fix and so it will take time to reach your goals and there will be times when you fall off the band wagon, the most important thing to do is jump right back on. 

Before you start you need to get back into the right mind set.  Here are some things to consider:

  • Think about why you wanted to lose weight in the first place?
  • Think of all the hard work you have done with your weight loss up to now and how you do not want to have to begin from the start again if you decide to lose weight in future. 
  • Believe that you can do it! Because you can!
  • Read about other people's success stories to help motivate you.
  • Realise that if you don't succeed at first, don't give up, just keep trying!
  • Begin again with your partner, a friend or relative to help motivate each other.
  • Know that everyone has days where they go off the rails. The difference between being successful and not being successful is that the successful just disregard a bad day or week and get back on track because all is not lost! So why not adopt this attitude.

So now you’re in the right mind set what do you do next?

Follow these eight easy steps to get back on track:

  1. Visit your Tony Ferguson Practitioner
    Go into your nearest Tony Ferguson store and weigh in.  This will give you your re-starting weight.  Spend time clarifying your goals with your Practitioner.  Ask your Tony Ferguson Weightloss Practitioner or give our Call Centre a call on 1800 612 644 and enquire of any Program updates. Get more information about Our Program on our website.
  2. Set Goals
    Have another look at your weight loss goals and assess whether they are realistic and achievable.  Use a calendar or a diary to set achievable goals along the way to your ultimate goal.  A great mini goal is aim to lose 5kg’s in 6 weeks. You may not even want to use kilograms lost as a goal, perhaps a more suitable goal for you would be to fit into those jeans or to be able to run with the kids so set a goal that you can see yourself achieving or something that you feel you can motivate yourself to achieve. 
  3. Reward Yourself
    Decide on a small non-food related reward to give yourself once you achieve your mini goals. For example a new item of clothing, a hair appointment or pamper pack. To learn more about non-food rewards, read our article: Reward Yourself - You Deserve it!
  4. Go Shopping
    Make a shopping list and set aside some time (preferably without the kids) to purchase foods that will set you up to eat well such as summer fruits and vegetables.  Include snacks and quick meals to help get you through when you need a snack or a quick meal such as the Tony Ferguson diet jellies, lollies and Easy Meals. Ensure that you are fully stocked up.  Then, remove all foods that you need to avoid while on the Weightloss Program.  
  5. Recipes
    Look at recipe ideas that will provide tasty meal ideas that you can enjoy while on the Program and even family members can enjoy. Try to include at least one new recipe a week from the Tony Ferguson Cookbooks (1, 2, Mini, Seasonal flavours), Tony Ferguson Magazine or on this website.  Don’t forget that you can turn your shakes into loved foods such as Banana bread, Chocolate Fudge Brownies or even Trifle (for more ideas, view our shake recipes).  So check out these recipes. Here are two of my favourite online recipes: Ricotta filled Steak with Grilled Zucchini and Tomato Salad, Chargrilled Eggplant Bruschetta with Salsa
  6. Get Supported
    Don't be afraid to ask for help or support. Support can come in many forms for example from your family and friends, colleagues at work and from your local Tony Ferguson Practitioner or our Call Centre.  Speak to one of our Practitioners at your local Tony Ferguson Weightloss clinic or contact our Call Centre staff on 1800 612 644. For more information on gaining support read our article titled: To Gain Support or Not to Gain Support.
  7. Find an Exercise Buddy
    Whilst research seems to show that exercise is not adequate on its own for most people to lose weight there is no doubt it is an important part of any long-term lifestyle plan. The benefits include toning, assisting with stress and wellbeing, and many physiological benefits.  I always find when I am exercising I also become more conscious about supporting my body with healthy food. Another thing to consider is including exercise for fun, yes I did say FUN! Think of exercise as not a serious commitment that means hard work but rather a leisure activity that increases variety in your life and with so many different types of activities out there you will be able to find one that you can try whether it is tennis or indoor rock climbing, hiking or boxing classes, yoga or simply walking! Read our article titled: Are You Exercising for FUN?
  8. Let them Eat Cake
    Always remember you have Progress! If you don’t want to give up your cake, you don’t have to.  Go and speak to your Practitioner and ask them about Progress and all the yummy foods you can still eat while losing weight! Read our information on the Progress phase: A Day on Progress.


Remember we at Tony Ferguson Weightloss Program are here to support you and would love to help you get back on track. All you need to do is come in and see us or give us a call! We look forward to helping you reach a goal you are happy with as you strive to a happier and healthier lifestyle.


Last updated 08 January 2010


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